It does not matter what happens to you but how you react to what happens… That is what will determine your destiny.
Your boss or a crappy job… or failing business… or poor grades… can not be a problem if you know inside your self… that this is not forever… if you know that you will amount to more than this brief moment in time… if you are committed to do the work required to be better and become more than you are now.
The heartbreak you are experiencing might be tough now… but it will NOT define your life… unless you allow it to do so. However you see and respond to ANY… and EVERY EVENT in your life determines YOUR DESTINY.
You have to constantly ask yourself:
HOW CAN I MOVE FORWARD?
How can I move past this?
How can I be better?
What can I learn from this?
Failure hits us all, Heartache hits us all, Problems hits us all… This is all a normal part of being human. What is not normal is taking in all of that and moving forward anyway.
What is not normal is being beaten down by life, time after time… and time after time rising up again and again! What is not normal is seeing the PROBLEM in your way as a CHALLENGE, as an opportunity to show who you are? and who are you?
What has happened in the past…. It really doesn’t matter though… what matters is who you decide to be now. Who are you going to be from this moment forward?
Whatever happens you can rise above it. You can defeat it! You choose, choose wisely!